Mada za sehemu hiiPromotion Of Life SkillsMada 1
- Good Leadership, Team Work, Positive Relationship, Self-Worth and Confidence
Life skills are the means through which a person can live well in a society. They are the ways an individual can properly manage his/her life and that of other people.
Promotion of life skills is of great importance in modern societies because of the prevailing socio-economic, political and cultural changes that have been accelerated by scientific and technological advancements.
The ongoing changes require good leadership, teamwork, positive relationships, self-worth and self-confidence from members of societies or communities to survive in this competitive world.
A leader is a person who guides or directs others in a group, an institution, a company, a village or a country.
Good leadership refers to proper leadership, which adheres to the important characteristics of a good leader.
The following are the characteristics of a good leader:
- A good leader should be a task-oriented or people-oriented leader. The task-oriented leader will place emphasis on training and performance with the ultimate aim of achieving and winning. He/she should be able to identify the community goals or specific targets. The leader then should be able to impart these goals to his people and commit them to work hard and intelligently to achieve the desired community goals.
- A good leader should not simply issue orders for people to follow, but he/she should be able to instill good characteristics to them, which will make it possible to achieve the stated goals.
- A good leader should have confidence, determination and perseverance. There will be many complex issues that must be addressed by the leader.
- A good leader should be able to create an ideal situation that will encourage his/her people to perform. The leader should be readily available for his/her people and they should be free to approach him/her for consultations.
- A good leader should be able to identify good opportunities that can be utilized to achieve the stated community goals. The leader has to be optimistic that opportunities can be exploited to yield the intended goals. Good leaders should have a vision, which they work towards.
- Good leaders know where they are heading and lead their people towards the same vision.
- Good leaders are not passive people. They are usually extremely passionate in whatever they are doing.
- Good leaders should be wise if they are to be successful. Being a leader often means that crucial decisions will have to be made at one point. Having wisdom to make a right decision is most important in ensuring success.
- Good leaders should be charismatic, attractive to the people through their good personalities. This can be through the way they speak.
- Good leaders must be persistent in the attempt of meeting their goals. They realize that the goal to success is not simple; despite that, they see that the benefit of reaching the goal are greater than that of the setback that they will experience.
- Good leaders should have integrity. They mean what they say, and they say what they mean. They are people who keep their promises and they do not play the two-faced political game that a lot of others do.
- Good leaders must be ready to pursue their dreams until they become true. The fears are real, but the courageous leader pursues them despite the fears.
- Good leaders are extremely disciplined in their pursuit of their goals. While most people would be easily discouraged, good leaders make sure they achieve their goals.
There are four leadership styles, namely dictatorial, autocratic, democratic and laissez-fair leadership.
- Dictatorial leadership. This is the type of leadership governed by a dictator that is dominated by fear, threats, disgrace, and frequent dismissal of the workers.
- Autocratic leadership. Central authority characterizes this type of leadership. One individual controls all the powers; a leader can give or withhold rewards or punishments.
- Democratic or participative leadership. This type of leadership involves the leader consulting the subordinates on the proposed actions and decisions and encourages their participations.
- Laissez-fair leadership. This is the type of leadership where the leader is not in control. The leader is only consulted if information is required, and he/she can make only a small contribution. This type of leadership gives chance for the subordinates to decide on their own.
- Earns trust from the people by involving them in decision-making. Hence, they can work together with their leaders to achieve their goals.
- Increases efficiency and effectiveness in a community, as people are satisfied with their leaders work or performance.
- Enhances public relations in a community. The positive image of a leader enhances public relations that will lead to the achievement of community goals.
- Enhances people's confidence, especially when leaders are transparent and accountable to their decisions.
- Reduces conflicts in a community. With good leadership, neither the people nor the leaders shall be involved in conflicts. The community do have proper channels to forward their problems through democratic ways based on decision-making procedures.
A team comprises any group of people with a common purpose. A group in itself does not necessarily constitute a team. However, many components like managers and agents. Teamwork is a joint action done by a group of people (team) with a common goal.
The most effective teamwork is produced when all individuals work together to achieve a common goal.
- To effectively achieve the goals of an organization, all the people should combine their efforts. If everyone does his/her job well, and then it increases what the team can accomplish. Teamwork has to be recognized by everyone knowing that great things happen if individuals work together as one unit.
Aspects of teamwork
A good and strong leadership is essentially for successful teamwork. While each teamwork member will be encouraged to share thought and opinions as well as skills, the leader will be responsible for the final decisions and implementations that are made.
A leader should be strong and confident as well as competent in his/her particular area of expertise
- Goal setting is an essential part of teamwork. A team should set its goal for easy accomplishment of a task. A team cannot work well and achieve its goal if it does not have well-defined goals to be achieved. It is also very important for team members to understand their roles and responsibilities.
- Communication is another important part of teamwork. The team members must communicate all aspects of a project and be willingly to listen to each other. The lines of communication should be open at all times and to all team members.
- The team must have a unified commitment. This does not mean team members must agree on everything. It means that all individuals must be directing their efforts towards the goal. The team must have a result-driven structure. The team should be allowed to operate in a manner that produces results. It is often best to allow the team to develop the structure.
- The team must have high standards that are understood by all. Team members must know what is expected of them individually and collectively. Vague statements such as "positive attitude" and "demonstrated efforts" are not good enough.
- The team must have a collaborative climate. It is a climate of trust produced by honest, open, consistent and respectful behavior. With this climate team perform well and without it they will fail.
- Conflict resolution. Conflict will rise no matter how teams functions together. The best way to counter conflict is to have structured method of conflict resolution. Team members should be able to voice their concerns without fear of offending others. Instead of avoiding conflict, it's better to resolve them quickly.
The most important compound for team building is the selection of participants to be in-group or team. The team leader usually looks for specific things from the members in order to ensure success in the group or team projects. It is very important to have members that are confident and are able to build trust among other participants. Most importantly, the participants must have a positive attitude at all times.
Training on how to work together is also a very important compound of teamwork. A team must know how to work together in order to be productive and successful. If a team can work together, it will be able to resolve issues that are standing in the way to accomplish a goal. Working together may not come easily at first, but with proper training and mutual communication, the team will be able to adapt quickly.
- Balanced skills set. When creating teamwork, it is important to have balanced skills sets. One way to achieve this is by having experts in different fields. If some members provide some of their theoretical skills, for example, individuals that are knowledgeable about the course materials are confused about technology part of it.
- Allocation of roles within the team is one of the elements needed for team building. Assigning roles to team members help them to know the team's place. Each member should be assigned a role that is clearly defined.
- Harmonizing personalities. The personality of someone plays a bigger role on how the team performs. The leader must understand the kind of people and personality they need to have in order to gain success from the team group.
- Teamwork can make more effective and efficient use of labor and improve productivity by maximizing the different strengths and skills of team members, encouraging team members to undertake a wide range of tasks and making team members accountable to customers.
- Teamwork improves quality and encourages innovation of product or services. Innovation has been the outcome of many team works initiatives. Involvement of team
- In institutions like a school, students learn to work together in many ways. They learn to rely on each other and take advantage of every opportunity they have.
Positive relationships can be defined as the state of having meaningful, loving, supportive and cooperative relationships between two or more people. It is not difficult to establish meaningful, loving, supportive and cooperative relationships.
Principles for developing positive relationships
In order to develop positive relationship, someone needs to understand the following principles of human behavior:
- Time and patience. Building positive relationship is like building a house; it takes a lot of time and patience to accomplish likewise to understand human life it takes time and it needs patience to cope with them.
- Applying the principle of brotherhood and allowing others to become more responsible.
- Allowing people to make choices
- Every human behavior has a social purpose. It should be noted that some people misbehave because they are searching for self-attention and some look for revenge.
- Changing your negative behavior can most effectively influence the negative behavior of others.
Importance of positive relationships
- Positive relationships are important in maintaining a sense of good among ourselves. A destructive relationship is not always good because it leads to various problems such as abuse.
- Positive relationships are important and are a source of success in every area of life as they enhance love, family happiness, business success and spiritual fulfilment.
- They also promote good principle that ensures success to everyone, partners, family, friends and work colleagues. This means that there is a need to identify key principles and techniques that attract positive relationships because they heal any relationship issues.
- Positive relationships enlighten the people on how to make a right decision in relationships, communicating better, enjoying greater intimacy and confidence.
Worth refers to how much we value something, how important it is for us and how much priority we give it compared to other things.
- Refers to a feeling of confidence in yourself that you are a good and useful person.
- It is a favorable estimate or opinions of oneself.
Self-worth
- Is a measure of our unconditional self-love.
- High self-worth means loving ourselves unconditionally in all areas of our lives.
- To have a higher degree of self-worth, we must love ourselves even when we make mistakes.
- Is frequently based on our feelings of worth in terms of our skills, achievements, statutes, financial resources or physical attributes.
- This kind of self-worth often cultivates an independence and arrogant attitude.
There are a number of things you can do to build self-confidence. These are:
- Dressing style. Clothes affect the way someone feels about him/herself. It changes the way you feel about yourself and interact with other people. If you dress well, you will feel confident in all places however if you dress improperly you will feel shy and lose confidence.
- Good posture. By practicing good posture, you will automatically feel more confident. Stand up straight, keep your head up and make eye contact. You will make a positive impression on others and instantly and feel more alert and empowered.
- Walking fast or quickly also builds one's self-confidence. One of the easiest ways to tell how a person feels about him/herself is to examine his/her work.
- Listening to motivational speeches. Another way of building self-confidence is listening to motivational speeches. You can feel this need by creating personal commercials.
- Compliment other people around you and refuse to engage in criticizing them. When we think negatively about ourselves, we often project that feeling on to others in the form of insults and gossip. To break this cycle of negativity, get in the habit of praising other people.
- Make efforts to speak up in group discussions. During group discussions, many people never speak up because they are afraid that people will judge them for saying something wrong.
- Sitting in the front row helps in building self-confidence. In schools, offices and public assemblies around the world, people constantly strive to sit at the back rows. Most people prefer sitting at the back because they are afraid of being noticed.
- Physical fitness has a huge effect on self-confidence. If you are out of shape, you will feel insecure, unattractive and less energetic. By working out, you improve your self-appearance, energize yourself and accomplish something positive. Having the discipline to work out not only makes you feel better.
- Self-confidence is essential to success in many aspects of the individual's life. It is the key factor in business success. This is because a confident person knows how to balance risk. He/she can borrow money from banks to run the business and pay back the debt.
- Self-confidence involves doing what you believe to be right decision, even if others criticize you for it, being willingly to take risks and go to the extra mile to achieve better things, admitting your mistakes and vowing to learn from them.
- Self-confidence also allows an individual to increase his/her level of control in situations that are important. As your self-confidence grows, your excitement and energy will help you to be in control.
- Self-confidence is generated not only in achievement, ability and success but also from adversity and failure. It is difficult to understand happiness unless you have experienced sadness. You cannot appreciate light unless you have been in the dark.
- Self-confidence also promotes individual's personality in terms of dressing and communication skills. Good and attractive dressing and communication skills affect the way someone feels about him/herself. It changes the way you feel about yourself and interact with other people.
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